My blog began as a way to vent my frustrations surrounding our struggle with infertility. I am now ELATED that it has moved from an infertility to pregnancy blog and finally our baby blog! The scars of infertility will never fade completely, and truthfully I don't want them to. Infertility has impacted our lives in a way nothing else ever could, and I'm very grateful for all it has taught me. At some point we will probably be traveling down this road again in order to complete our family, but for now we are enjoying our amazing little guy! He's so much more perfect than we ever imagined he could be. I guess it's true what they say...good things DO come to those who wait! :o)

Monday, November 28, 2011

35 Weeks!

Well the post is late again, but the picture was taken on the right day :o)  The big news from last week's doctor's appt was that I'm officially at the point of no return!  No matter when labor starts, they won't stop it anymore.  I was definitely a little taken aback by that news.  I knew I was close to that point, but to actually hear it from the midwife's mouth really made it real!  I guess it's time to pack the hospital bag and leave it in the car so I'm prepared for when it's go time!

Over the weekend we visited my parents for Thanksgiving.  It was so nice to have time off of work and be home for a while.  This was also my last trip out of Peoria until after the baby is born.  Once I've hit 36 weeks I'm not supposed to go further than an hour from the hospital (not that I'd want to!)  So this was our last hurrah until little man arrives.  It was definitely a much longer trip than usual.  We had to stop more than ever...no surprise there, but still a little obnoxious.  When I'm on a car trip I'm one of those people who only likes to stop when gas is needed.  Food and bathroom must be done at all gas stops and only gas stops.  Well that was how I USED to do car trips.  Now it's we stop whenever I feel the urge for the bathroom, which unfortunately is a lot more frequently than it ever has been.  I will most definitely NOT miss that part of pregnancy!  I can honestly say I can never make fun of my mother's need for frequent bathroom breaks again. 

While we were home we of course had to get food from the favorite restaurants.  Pizza and Mexican food!  Baby K better agree with us one day.  Lol!  We also had my dad's awesome deep fried turkey for Thanksgiving.  My grandparents and aunt and uncle drove up for the day to spend the holiday with us.  It was so nice to see them again so soon!  We don't see them nearly as often as I used to.  The 6 hour drive to see them kind of makes it hard to go very often.  We spent the day with the four of them, then decided to check out the deals at the Outlet mall on Black Friday.  We didn't brave the midnight madness but went out a little after noon.  It was busy, but not crazy, which was nice.  I got some great things for Baby at the Carter's store, and some clothes from the maternity store.  This weekend we are having maternity pictures taken, and I wanted a couple of new outfits for them.  Who wouldn't?!?!  :o)  I also got some cute comfy pj's to wear in the hospital the day after the baby is born. 

Saturday I made a lamp shade for a lamp in the baby's room and Mom and Cindy recovered a couple of pillows to match the bedding Mom had made.  Everything looks so cute!  I can't wait to get it all put together!  I'm working on painting letters to spell Baby K's name as well.  They're going to match the bedding colors also.  Dad cut some trim so we can build a frame to go around the letters.  There is just one small thing that Matthew's dad is going to do this coming weekend for us.  Once the back of the trim is cut, I finish the letters, and get the plywood board covered in fabric, then we can get it all put together!  It won't be hung until after little man is born, but I can't wait to see the finished project! 

Whew....well as you can tell it was quite the busy weekend!  Here is this week's belly pic, and pics of the lamp and the changing table/dresser cover that my mom made to match the bed skirt.  I sure am lucky that I have family members who can sew!

35 Weeks!  Almost full term!

My lamp for the nursery!

With the light on this time :o)

Pad for the changing table/dresser

Thursday, November 17, 2011

34 Weeks!

Wow...34 weeks already!  Only 6 to go, I honestly cannot believe there is so little time left!  I'm starting to feel pressure in my lower abdomen, so I wonder if he's starting to drop a little bit. 

This week we had another baby class (only one more!  yea!)  This time we were able to talk with one of the anesthesiologists at the hospital about epidurals and the other anesthesia that is commonly used during labor and delivery.  It really was a very interesting hour, and I can honestly say I'm much more relaxed about the whole process.  I was never anxious enough to consider forgoing drugs, but I'd be lying if I said the process didn't worry me a little bit before.  Now that we know more of the details, saw the items that would be used for the procedure, and was able to ask questions to one of the people who may eventually be performing my epidural, I feel much more relaxed about it.  Yes, there are risks with it, but they are very minimal.  I just know that my pain tolerance isn't what it would need to be in order to have a truly all natural birth.  I'm not opposed to waiting for a while and trying to handle the pain on my own for a bit, but that's about it.  Just for a bit.  ha!

Yesterday they threw a shower at school for me and the two other employees who are having babies in December.  We got so many great things.  Baby K's stock pile is continuing to grow.  Sophie continues to wonder what all this stuff is for and why it's invading "her space."  She has found a new place to sleep during the day.  She definitely thinks the glider is her chair now.  Not that I can blame her.  It is super soft and cushy, so I'd want to sleep in it too if I were her.  It's just funny to watch her.  She definitely thinks she's queen of the mountain when she's in it :o)


Well...now that you've had the rundown on the week, here is this week's belly shot :o)

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Baby Shower #2!

As I mentioned in my previous post, Saturday was our 2nd baby shower.  My sister and aunt went all out for it, and it was completely amazing!  Not only was the shower great what made it even better was it was a combo party, our baby shower and my grandpa's 90th birthday.  I can't imagine something like that happens very often, and I was really glad that we were able to share the evening with him. 

We got so many wonderful gifts from my family members.  Amazingly we were able to get them all home, I was a little worried at first!  :o)  I now have lots of laundry to do before the little guy gets here!  Well, here is the fun part of the post...shower pictures!  Great big huge thanks again to my sister and aunt for all the amazingly hard work they put into the party.  It was fabulous!

The sticker says "Pam's about to POP!"  (It went with the popcorn)

The cupcake table! My sister made them and the decorations on them.

Close up of the cupcakes.  YUMMY!!!

Rice Krispy Treat Rattles

Opening gifts from my parents.  Mom made the bed skirt that is on my lap!


Presents...

presents...

More presents!  The blankets my sister made :o)

The keepsake boxes say "My First Tooth" and "My First Curl"
90th birthday decorations for Grandpa!

Grandma and I looking at the picture book for my grandpa

Mom and Grandpa looking at the picture book. 




The crib with the bed skirt!  Thanks Mom!
So there you have it!   A few pics from the shower and birthday party.  It was such a great evening!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

33 Weeks!

I'm a few days behind on this post.  The picture is at exactly 33 weeks, but we've had so much going on this weekend that the blog post got put on the back burner.  Thursday was 33 weeks.  I took the picture as soon as I got home from work, then had a little time to pack and relax with Sophie before I took her to stay with Matthew's parents for the weekend.  I dropped Sophie off at Grandma and Grandpa's and then headed in to the hospital for a class on breastfeeding.  It was really informative and I am really glad I went.  Matthew got a free pass on this class.  Ha!  After the class was finished I had to meet Matthew at the car dealership to drop his car off for service.  We finally made it home around 10:00 that night.  It was definitely a LONG day, and I was exhausted! 

Friday morning we had several things to do around town before we hit the road for our 2nd baby shower!  (More on that later)  Matthew had an appointment at his eye doctor for new glasses, and then we had a "meet and greet" appointment with a pediatrician in town.  Everything at the optometrist went well and Matthew is getting new glasses, thank goodness!  We then met with a pediatrician.  Both of us really liked him and decided there was no reason to visit any others.  Yea!  It was much easier than I expected!  After finishing up at the ped we hit the road for Southern Indiana.  My sister and aunt were throwing a baby shower/90th birthday party for my grandpa on Saturday.  Matthew and I love to go visit the family, but the 6 hr drive to get there limits the number of times we get to go.  The shower/bday party was a huge success and everything was incredible!  They definitely went all out, but I'll blog more about that later.  Today we unfortunately had to make the long trip home.  The weekends seem to be going faster and faster, especially when they're filled with things to do. 

Once we got home we unpacked the car, which was filled to the ceiling with baby gear.  It's amazing we were able to get our suitcases in to come home!  As soon as we pulled in the driveway, we started unloading the car and putting all the baby things in his room.  Matthew's parents brought Sophie home and she instantly thought everything was for her.  She can be quite nosey :o)  I was cutting tags off of things that needed to be washed, trying to find places to put everything, and organizing the best I could.  I currently have a hamper and laundry basket full of clothes and blankets that need to be washed, and that is only the beginning of the baby laundry.  LOL!  Once everything was in its designated spot for the evening, I decided to tackle the bed skirt my mom made for the crib.  It looks awesome!  She did such a great job on it.  There are a couple of other things she's making for the baby's room as well and I can't wait to see them.  The whole room will really be tied together with those things and the letters that I'm painting to spell his name for the wall.

Well needless to say I'm officially exhausted.  It's been quite the weekend!  I will blog more about the shower another day and post some pictures, but for now I'll just leave the weekly belly shot and head off to bed!

33 Weeks, only 7 more to go!

Monday, November 7, 2011

Baby Shower #1

Yesterday was our first baby shower.  It was great!  We got lots of wonderful gifts for Baby K.  He is definitely going to be the best dressed kid around!  Matthew's aunt and cousin did a great job with everything.  The decorations were adorable, and they had very yummy snacks!  Since pictures are better than words, below are just a few from the shower.  Big thanks again to our generous hostesses and all of the guests for such a great afternoon!

The Bump!

Opening presents :o)

A Baby Sock Bouquet

Diaper cake!

Baby clothes make great decorations!

It's a baby shower!

Friday, November 4, 2011

Belly Progression Pic

So even though I did the 32 week shot yesterday, I decided to do a progression pic collage.  It's always kind of fun to see the difference between the weeks.  I was really surprised at how little change there really was between weeks 10 and 20, but between 20 and 30....WHOA!  Talk about really popping!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

32 Weeks!

Well, another week down only 8 more to go!  Holy crap!  Last week was our final Lamaze class, tonight is Newborn Care, next week is a class on brestfeeding, the following week is all about epidurals and various forms of anesthesia used, and then finally in December is our infant/child CPR class.  Whew!  We are going to be busy these last few weeks!

Our first baby shower is this Sunday!  I can't wait!  I've been a little lax on posting pics of the new items we've gotten lately, so this post is also an update with that as well.  We have all of our nursery furniture now!  The finishing touches will come in a few weeks.  My mom is making the bedskirt, a diaper stacker, and a pad/cover to go on top of our changing table/dresser to keep the changing pad from scratching it.  I've also purchased wooden letters to pain brown and the blueish/teal color of the fabric that Mom is using, to spell out his name on the wall.  I can't wait to get all the stuff put in it and see it all put together!

Well here is this week's token belly pic, and a pic of the glider, our stroller, and the crib! 

32 Week belly shot!   
Stroller with the infant seat attached (nevermind the dog toys on the floor.  haha!)

Stroller without the infant seat

Crib!

Glider and the tall dresser again :o)